Yesterday was a special day for me.  I turned the big 3-2.  Turning 32 isn’t necessarily a traditional big milestone that most people celebrate.  Especially after you reach a certain age, a birthday just becomes any other day.  No special than the day before or the day after.  But this birthday was definitely a MILESTONE for me in so many ways…   Getting to this point… My 20’s were very experimental, free-spirited, uninhibited – and I had an AWESOME time.  However, I was still very self-conscious, unsure of who I was, and at times uncomfortable in my own skin.  My actions were dictated by people’s views and approval from others was paramount to me.  I…